Systemic Family Constellation and Online Coaching

Don’t you really know where your place in life is?
Do you have problems in your partnership?
Do you have problems in your business or work situation?
Do you have health problems?
Do you feel excluded?
Do you have a death wish?
Do you feel depressed?
Then the systemic family constellation could help you to find a solution …

What is a Systemic Family Constellation?

Usually, a systemic family constellation takes place in a group of 10-20 participants. The client explains the constellation to the facilitator of the constellation. The facilitator asks for specific difficult fates or injustices in the family system. The client then chooses substitutes for members of his family system from the group of participants. He places them in the room according to his inner image in relation to each other.
Without much information, the substitutes feel the people they represent. They often adopt the same posture, facial expressions, vocal pitch, or symptoms of illness as the person they represent.
Through a systemic family constellation, the unconscious and disease-causing dynamics in a system are made visible. It often becomes apparent what the causes of the problems mentioned by the client are, be they conflicts, illness, financial issues, difficulties in relationships, accidents, repetitive experiences in life, etc …
The formation of a family system is like a reflection of the subconscious of the family system and shows what actually happens in a family or system. In this way, for situations that previously seemed hopeless, release and solutions can be found at a deeper level. Because all too often it happens that we humans as part of a family system are not free for our lives because we repeat a painful fate of a member in our system.
C. G. Jung, the Swiss psychiatrist and founder of analytical psychology, said so fittingly:

A typical family constellation - representatives are related to each other and represent a family system.

A typical family constellation - representatives are related to each other and represent a family system.

Systemisches Familienstellen C.G.Jung

When I worked in my family tree, I understood the strange communion of the destiny that unites me to my ancestors. I had the strong feeling that it was under the influence of events and problems that were incomplete and unresolved by my parents, my grandparents, and my other ancestors. I had the impression that there is often in the family an impersonal Karma transmitted from parents to children. I always knew that I had to answer questions already asked by my ancestors or I had to conclude, or continue on the previously unresolved issues

 

Carl Gustav Jung

When a tree has strong and healthy roots, it bears juicy and healthy fruits. However, if the roots do not get enough food, are sick or injured in any way, it affects the whole tree and its fruit. Everyone knows that.
Very few people know that the same applies to a family system. Our life is the result of the lives of our ancestors. They are our origin and our roots. For this reason, we also speak of a family TREE. If something has happened in our family tree that has violated the natural orders of the family system, it affects every single member of the system. It affects every single fruit of the tree.
If in a family system an injustice happened to a member and there was no compensation for the injustice, then this has consequences for all in the system, also on the descendants. The Spirit who directs life, who loves everything, whether evil or good, makes this unpunished injustice visible by a successor atoning for it. One could also call it the family-karma.
If, for example, your ancestor has financially tricked someone, then a descendant can perhaps have a similar experience as a human being has suffered injustice through his ancestor. Then you may have financial difficulties or be illegally deprived of your money.

How can you bring the injustice of the ancestors, which still works in your life and under which you may suffer, to a loving solution for everyone in the system? Here the Systemic Family Constellation helps by opening through a constellation a “timeless” space in which past, present, and future become “one,” and the orders of love are restored.
By reconciling and acknowledging those who have suffered injustice, entanglements and sickening bonds will be released so that the natural order of life in a family system can be restored and love can flow again. The love then flows from the source directly to you and heals the areas of your life affected by the injustice of your ancestors.
For when all have their deserved place in the family system, we are lovingly connected with our ancestors and through them with the source of life.

And at the same time, we are free for our own happiness and life. When will I be and feel happy and whole?  When without exception everyone has his place in the family system and thus in my heart. Then I feel complete, whole and happy. I am connected with everyone in deep love and respect and get strength from my ancestors, which has its origin in the source of live.
This loving connection frees me for my own life and divine inspiration. Because as long as someone or something is excluded in the system, is not seen or accepter, something is missing. But the excluded is not forgotten and so I repeat the fate of the excluded and am like a puppet. Engraved in the threads of the fate of another.
Then I often wondered why I have attracted failure, unhappy relationships and illnesses again and again. The key to the solution was and is to be found in accepting and encompassing and not in excluding. If the person, the excluded person, receives the love and the place to which he or she is entitled, I am in harmony, too. I feel whole, connected and can unfold my own life free from entanglement.

Where can a Systemic Family Constellation help you?

  • decision making

  • death wish

  • physical complaints, chronic ailments, disease

  • the place in life

  • exclusion

  • depression

  • tendency to accidents

  • repetitive negative events in life

  • difficulties with the landlord

  • problems with a child

  • problems in patchwork families

  • Burnout

  • sexual abuse

  • conflicts at work

  • interrupted forward movement

  • difficult birth

  • farewell and grief work

  • addiction

  • Adoption

  • anxieties

  • couple problems

  • separation/divorce

  • miscarriage

  • abortion

  • problems in the family

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How exactly does a Systemic Family Constellation work with me via Zoom?

I don’t know anyone else who has a similar approach to my own kind of doing constellations. Usually, if you don’t have a group available for a constellation, then you work with symbols that represent the substitutes. The facilitator touches and feels each of the symbols that are also placed in the room to each other. What I have always missed was the aspect that the natural movements that happen in a constellation have no space in this way. So in 2008, I came up with the idea of working with symbols, which I also placed in space, and then I step by step step on these symbols. In this way, I can follow the movements of the substitutes as well as feel more deeply what is happening in this system, where the healing is going. I am, so to speak, a representative for everyone I set up. And my client does the same at home while we have the constellation via Zoom. It is very touching. I am very sensitive to the movements of souls in my body and heart. Sometimes tears come to me; sometimes I have to laugh, sometimes I am deeply moved by a movement in the system.
Meanwhile, after all these years of my experience with systemic family constellations, I see the constellation in a kind of hologram, I see how the participants of a constellation move, while as a representative I feel a person in the system. It is as if the space in which the constellation becomes visible shows itself to me in a hologram.
And so the constellation gradually leads me to a solution through its dynamics.

Logistics and before you book:

How does a constellation with me work?
– I ask for all the necessary information
– you fill out a questionnaire about your ancestors, which you send me before the appointment
– we arrange an appointment, at which we make the constellation.
– after the constellation, you will receive the final picture with a description of the constellation.
What do you need for that?
– Din A 5 sheets – as a representative
– webcam and preferably a headset
– an internet connection that allows video telephony
– A room where you are undisturbed

Before you work with me, read this:

A family constellation is not an aspirin that covers the symptoms and looks like a supposedly quick solution. Even though release and illness are both here and now, both the illness and the release take time to become visible in this material 3D world. And so it takes time for a family constellation to work and its results to become visible in our reality. Nowadays, people are so rushed, and everything has to go fast and bring immediate results. The soul has its sense of time and needs a loving space of unfolding.
So, if you want us to do a constellation together, then give space to the release, the change and give space to the pain as well. As long as you want to get rid of something, you hold on to it. As soon as something can be there, it can go. From my own experience, I know that sometimes it takes months for a constellation to have its effect. And when you are ready to give yourself and your soul this space, then I am happy if I can do a constellation with you.

Are you ready to experience release, freedom for your own life and strengthening the connection with your ancestors?